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It’s cold tonight and your
warmth’s gone missing.
Your eyes have an
emptiness, your
heart’s not in them.
I’ve felt the gap
increasing the distance.
Just a short time now
that our connection’s
been slipping.
Sharp pain snaps when
the realization is grasped.
Your presence dissipating,
scattering, spreading thin…
I know, it’s clear, I need to let go.
I need to be free of the knots
(in my gut)
of believing that which
is no longer true.
We both deserve someone
who will warm at our sight,
happy to hold us with
love in their eyes..
With no hindrance or
distractions between
our two hearts.
Goodbye then,
take care.
I wish you well.
But I’ll need
time to recover
from the
indifference
I
felt.
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Daydreamertoo
/ May 22, 2012So sad when love leaves, for whatever the cause. This is so well written, I could actually feel it.
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012Yes it sure can break our hearts when love ends. I’m happy the feeling came through for you.
Victoria C. Slotto
/ May 22, 2012This is pain-filled, for sure. In my experience, there are moments when, even in a good, strong relationship, that feeling can happen. Then the questions is, what can I do to rekindle the fire.
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012You’re right, Victoria, but it’s when those relationships don’t have a strong foundation that separation of connection can mean the end.
Laurie Kolp
/ May 22, 2012So sad…
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012Yes, sad…but I also admire the strength in realizing that it’s time to move on when things don’t work out.
brian miller
/ May 22, 2012ouch..indifference is so hard…and cold…yeah i imagine it take a while to warm up again after that one…the lack of care…the slipping is so hard too and happens without notice until too late…i echoe victoria as well…it can be done but..
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012True…indifference is tough to handle…and that first shock of the realization that your “someone” has disconnected from you…hurts! I really don’t think all relationships are meant to be forever…sometimes it’s really best to move on…
ordinarylifelessordinary
/ May 22, 2012Ooh powerful and painful, so identifiable. A tough subject of separation handled with utter dignity in these words.very nice.
Bodhirose
/ May 26, 2012I really don’t like the idea of clinging to someone who obviously has lost interest. Best to move on as soon as possible…with dignity..thanks so much.
Mama Zen
/ May 22, 2012Beautifully written!
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012Thanks, MZ…thinking again of your very cool posting today…it really triggered a memory in me!
Androgoth
/ May 22, 2012When the love ebbs
it can take a lifetime
to recover…
You have written this
one clear and true Gayle :)
Androgoth XXx
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012Yes, it sure can…perhaps depending on whether you are the “dumped” or the “dumpee!” Thanks, Androgoth.. ;)
Heaven (@asweetlust)
/ May 22, 2012This is so sad but your words are serene and accepting of the situation ~ In time, we get over the indifference and loss ~
Thanks for sharing this ~
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012It’s sad…but I like the strength of resolution in it too..in spite of the pain.
Thanks, Grace, for adding your thoughts..
ayala
/ May 22, 2012So sad when love is gone…thank you for sharing.
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012Thank you for reading, Ayala.
Renee Espriu
/ May 22, 2012Love your choice of image to go with this post. Your words capture volumes.
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012Yes…it’s cold and stark..like dying attraction. Thanks, Renee.
Joseph Hesch
/ May 22, 2012So honest and true to the feelings felt by so many of us. Not an uncommon situation or state of being, but uniquely interpreted. Touched my heart. ~ j
Bodhirose
/ May 22, 2012I appreciate you sharing your feelings with me, Joseph…thanks so much. I’m glad it touched you.
Gayle ~
claudia
/ May 23, 2012oh heck…this is sad and emotionally written…the part with the heart that has disappeared from the eyes hit me most…
Bodhirose
/ May 24, 2012Yeah, that’s the worst part…seeing the heart gone from the eyes…
Sharp Little Pencil
/ May 24, 2012The pain of love that fades away, slowly… the word “dissipating” was perfect here. And finally, acknowledging the need to take time for recovery… too many jump into a rebound feet-first, whereas this soul understands the need for space. Really a wonderful write! Amy
http://sharplittlepencil.com/2012/05/23/wp-restores-choices-and-poem/
Bodhirose
/ May 24, 2012Thanks so much, Amy…I always enjoy your comments and insight! Nowadays, I understand more than ever the importance of space… and understanding my own needs.
Chazinator
/ May 24, 2012Breakups are the most difficult. Your poem’s sadness is balanced by the awareness that happiness for the beloved is the most important thing.
Bodhirose
/ May 24, 2012I think striving for that balance between our own heartbreak and wanting what’s best for both parties can be so helpful during these times. Thanks, Chaz..
dragonkatet
/ May 24, 2012:( So much pain here, Gayle. I know you’re a strong woman and you can (or have) get through it, but you definitely captured that deep sadness when you realize it’s gone for good with that particular person. So many people don’t understand that the opposite of love is not hate…it is apathy and indifference.
Bodhirose
/ May 24, 2012Most of these writes come from a deep emotional place from when I was hurting so desperately many years ago…thank goodness I prevailed and learned so much. My voice was often silenced then…now, I’m sharing those feelings. And I agree, apathy and indifference are the opposite of love…to hate you have to give a damn.
Hema
/ May 28, 2012The poem brings out the pain and the conviction to move on without any bitterness. Loved it!
Bodhirose
/ May 28, 2012I’m glad you saw it that way, Hema…thanks!
bardessdmdenton
/ May 30, 2012Love this, especially…
‘We both deserve someone
who will warm at our sight,
happy to hold us with
love in their eyes..
With no hindrance or
distractions between
our two hearts.’
Truly the ideal of love. Another beautiful poem, Gayle. Thanks for sharing! XO
Bodhirose
/ May 31, 2012Thanks, Diane..I’m glad you liked this. No, there’s no reason to cling to someone who clearly doesn’t want to be with you..better sooner than later…if you can let go.